It is very important to sit down and have an honest conversation with yourself about the type of life you want to lead and what things will personally fulfil you. Understanding that everyones notion of success is and will always be subjective is crucial. Stay away from social media for a time if you have to. Don't chase a goal because of the validation you might receive from others. Its okay not to know right away what you want to do in life, you can be micro goal oriented, advancing and progressing 1 per cent everyday to becoming a more complete version of yourself, reading the books, listening to the seminars, eating healthy and exercising. Invest in yourself, grow and become better than who you were yesterday.
It is okay not to know, but you can't let the fact you don't know stop you from growing. Take a random trip to country you have never been before, spend some time enjoying your own company. Before you know it you will have a much better idea as to what excites.
Don't be controlled by what everyone else is doing, you cannot do that. You will get use to being told what to do, this is a type of conditioning that you have to avoid. Get comfortable feeling uncertain, this won't the first situation in life where you will face pressure and you alone are the person who has to deal with it.
At the same time, remember, don't take life that serious, don't let the pressure of needing know what you want to do in the future stop you from enjoying the present moment.
As the great Bill Hick's said, "this is just a ride" just enjoy it, I know overly simplistic conclusion, but when you can simplify, simplify.
It is okay not to know, but you can't let the fact you don't know stop you from growing. Take a random trip to country you have never been before, spend some time enjoying your own company. Before you know it you will have a much better idea as to what excites.
Don't be controlled by what everyone else is doing, you cannot do that. You will get use to being told what to do, this is a type of conditioning that you have to avoid. Get comfortable feeling uncertain, this won't the first situation in life where you will face pressure and you alone are the person who has to deal with it.
At the same time, remember, don't take life that serious, don't let the pressure of needing know what you want to do in the future stop you from enjoying the present moment.
As the great Bill Hick's said, "this is just a ride" just enjoy it, I know overly simplistic conclusion, but when you can simplify, simplify.